In a few short weeks my book, Culture Rebel will be released. I wanted to offer my first chapter here for free on my blog so you can have a sneak peek! Feel free to share this post with your friends or on your blog. Any way you want to get the word out, please feel free!
Also, a couple of fun items before you read the chapter:
– I’m looking for a creative team to help me get the book out there! I’m not looking for people with marketing majors, but people who are passionate about the Culture Rebel message who are creative and fun! Let me know if that’s YOU! I would love to have you on the team! Doesn’t matter where you live. firstname.lastname@example.org
– we will be filming the video trailer for Culture Rebel soon. If you’re a dancer living in Calgary, we would love to have you be a part of the trailer! Let me know if that’s you! email@example.com
– you can read endorsements for the book here
– you can actually order the book on amazon.com or amazon.ca already, but I’d recommend waiting just a couple more weeks to buy it off my site if you would like a signed copy. Anyone who purchases the book off my site will get their book signed 🙂
Enough said, on with Chapter One: Why I Wrote This Book. Enjoy.
I like to live on the edge. I’m a brave, gutsy, A.D.D-type of gal who can’t sit still. The problem is, I’ve lived on the wrong edge for the last twenty years. Since my first full-time job, I have lived a life with me at the centre of my attention, and now I have nothing to show for all my years of work, college, and career. Coming close to forty, this has caused much introspection; what I’m discovering isn’t nice to look at.
Ask me how much I’ve saved in twenty years? Zip. Well, that’s not entirely true. Thank goodness I have a savvy hubby who saves money in places I wouldn’t want to mention for fear of making you blush. So yes, I have some savings … through him.
Even more pressing, ask me how much I’ve given in twenty years? Ok, that I can brag about a bit; I love to give. I consider myself to be pretty generous. I love taking people out, and giving lovely gifts; it’s nothing, really. I just put it on this shiny silver card that I carry in my wallet, and I don’t feel a thing. The problem with this shiny card is that they send letters to my hubby, and he’s never in a good mood after opening their mail. What’s that about?
Ask me where I’m sitting right now, writing this book. Starbucks, but isn’t that where all the cool writers write? Yup, I’m pretty trendy sitting here with my five dollar coffee that’s already cold. I think I must own stocks in this place. Oh no, I don’t mean their Bean Stock, which I’ve heard great things about. I’ve decided to go a more modest method: If I buy one five-dollar coffee per day, let’s see … I’m not so great at math, but that’s got to be around one thousand six hundred twenty five dollars a year (Pretty impressive “estimate,” eh?)! Ok, I totally used my calculator, but getting back to my “investment” … With all that five-dollar coffee inside me, I should be heading towards becoming a part owner of this place one day! Or maybe not …?
Are you wondering where else all my money has gone in the last twenty years? Me too, but I have some ideas. I love movies. Actually, I really just like the popcorn; the movie is an added bonus. I also love clothes … and “bling.” Not Tiffany’s “bling,” but “bling” nonetheless. I’m not a show off, but I really like those big rhinestone earrings that hit the shoulder (from their great length) and make my head go lop-sided when I’ve put one in one ear. I’ve lost my wedding ring … twice. I’ve owned some great clothing too, but I don’t know where half of it went. I did see one of my items in a local Salvation Army store, and I almost bought it again; it was beautiful!
I’m not a “shoe-person.” I don’t fully understand those people. I mean, what a waste of money. Not to mention, what a clutter nightmare! Don’t get me wrong; I do own a pair of heels that I bought in three different colors to be sure that I could match all the basic wardrobe essentials. I have boots with both heels and without (because sometimes you just don’t want to wear heels while grocery shopping), and each of these are in three different colors. But that’s all just practical, isn’t it? I have runners for dance (naturally in every color to match my hip hop Adidas jackets). And of course, I purchase new runners every six months for running because I don’t want to injure my coming-up-to-midlife knees! Nope, I’m definitely not a shoe person; I think I’m more of a coat-person. Now that makes more sense to me. I have a coat in every shape, color, size, and style you can imagine. Leather, tweed, fleece, down … I consider this shopping addiction more practical, as I live in a winter city. Keep warm and stylish. Win-win.
I’m also a sucker for diet books and trends; if there’s a diet book out there, I own it. I’m considering opening my own library in my basement … Name a diet-fad product, and I’m sure I’ve tried it: Pills, shakes, bars, metabolism boosting drinks, and stretch-mark cream (what a farce!) … I’ve done every diet program out there: Jenny Craig, weight watchers, raw food, vegan, drink-nothing-but-soup (I passed out on that one), Eat Clean, Balkan, and fitness model (on this one, I got to put chocolate pudding powder in my protein shakes! What a treat!). Then there’s all the equipment I’ve purchased (old exercise equipment makes lovely side tables, by the way): the Bosu, the Band, Kettlebells, a treadmill, the Yoga Block, a medicine ball, a bender ball, a Pilates ball (really anything that ends with “ball” … ). And I can’t forget to mention my workout DVD library, which consists of Jillian Michaels, Windsor Pilates, yoga (every type just to cover all my bases), Hip Hop Abs, P90X, and Richard Simmons. Did I just say Richard Simmons? Geesh, how did that get in there? Who has that one, right …?
I should probably just make a quick note about my love for my hair; it’s my crown, and I love doing funky things to it. There’s nothing like a trip to the hair salon! I HAVE to dye my hair. No really, I do; you should see how many grey hairs I have! I even have them in my eyebrows, which also calls for a trip to the spa to get my brows plucked and waxed. Maybe add a manicure onto my bill while you’re at it. Add a pedicure for ten dollars? What a great deal! Twist my rubber arm!
Last thing, I promise. Mascara. I have yet to find the one that gives me the lashes that Drew Barrymore has on the commercials. One day, I will find my dream mascara. It’s a long-term goal that I have. Wow. I think that’s it …
Yes, as you can see, I’ve made a huge investment in a product called “me”; it’s the edge I’ve lived on the last twenty years. It’s the edge that keeps me thinking that a new shirt, a night out, a manicure, a new diet, and a Starbucks will give me the life I’ve always wanted. I will be hot. I will be sexy. I will have the respect of everyone around me. That’s what the advertisement said, just before it said, “I’m worth it.”
Yet I’m discovering that this “edge” really isn’t an edge at all. It has become dull and unfulfilling. I’ve given it a real “go” for a while now. It keeps promising me “babe” status, but I find I have to keep going back for refills. I’m sick of it. My hubby’s sick of it. Actually, I think he’s more sick of those letters he keeps getting from this stranger person named “Visa.” Maybe you relate?
A self-centred existence leaves us with a life without purpose. I have found a new edge that I’m dying to tell you about. That’s what this book is about. I want to share my journey with you with the hope that you may also find the strength to make the shift to a more altruistic, adventurous life filled with purpose you were born to find. It’s not about money or stuff in essence, but a way of living that in some strange way delivers the promise that all of the stuff I just mentioned tried to promise, but couldn’t deliver. It’s called being a culture-rebel. What does this look like? Let’s find out.